Monday, May 22, 2017

Baptisms For The Dead

Letter from Lexie: This week we taught Jessi, an inactive member, and it went really well for the first time in forever. Usually she is very distracted when we come over and it is very hard to share a message with her, but this time she was different. When we walked in the door of her home, I reached out and gave a her hug but then she said, "Careful, careful." Apparently I didn't even notice but she had a nasty spider-like scorpion resting on her shoulder!! AND I HUGGED IT. disgusting. But she thinks it is cute and calls it her baby. an supposedly it is from the movie harry potter...eeww. scary.
yup. I hugged that.
Then Jessi whooped another one of her babies...a baby python. She said they can grow up to 30 feet! These are the types of snakes that can eat human beings! But it was really pretty and rainbow color, and I held it! And then Charlotte, the snake, pooped on Sister Watson! HAHAHA. it was so funny. "Awww, that means she likes you!" said Jessi. lol. She said that snakes only poop like once a week and I guess Sis Watson was the lucky one.
We taught Jessi about repentance and forgiveness. She said that she has been reading the Book of Mormon (which is AWESOME) and she finished 1 Nephi! Jessi said that one thing she noticed is how much forgiveness was in the first book. Over and over Nephi's brothers mess up, but he is always filled with love towards them. We are so grateful that we've been able to see the Lord soften Jessi's heart. Hopefully she will make it to church in the near future!
Do you all remember Mario? the singer? Yes, that's him! Well we had lunch with him one last time before school ends. Finally he asked us to teach him more about our beliefs and we shared the restoration. He seemed to like it and then out of nowhere is piled a bunch of deep-doctrine on us. Although it was pretty daunting, he was sincere and really wanted to know the answers to his questions. Mario attends Calvary Chapel and we discovered a little more about what they believe.
That moment, while teaching him the gospel at "Mr. Taco," I felt like Lehi when he exhorts his family to "hold to the rod!" and "come to the tree!" I wanted so badly for him to taste the joy of the true, restored gospel. I just want him to have the FULLNESS! But no matter what we said, Mario wouldn't change. His heart is hardened and he is not yet prepared. It was sad to see that and disappointing to hear that he wouldn't read the Book of Mormon. Someday he will. I'm grateful that he could sing us two more songs before he left. He sang my favorite song again, How He Loves. It always brings the spirit.
On Saturday, we were so happy to go to the temple with Rylee for her first time! She was astonished at the sight of the beautiful San Diego Temple. You could see her eyes light up as we walked inside. It was a very special day that I won't forget. I remember the very first day we taught her. She walked into the church building, pointed at a picture of the temple and asked, "How can I go inside there?" The temple has always been a major desire of hers. After we performed temple baptisms, just me, Sister Watson, and Rylee sat in the baptistery. She asked about the 12 oxen and what they represent. We then got on the topic of Patriarchal Blessings and how we can discover what tribe we are from. She is so excited to get her own patriarchal blessing!
Anywho, I love you all. And you should read this chapter...This is what I have experienced on my mission so far...
1 Nephi Chapter 8
Lehi sees a vision of the tree of life—He partakes of its fruit and desires his family to do likewise—He sees a rod of iron, a strait and narrow path, and the mists of darkness that enshroud men—Sariah, Nephi, and Sam partake of the fruit, but Laman and Lemuel refuse. About 600–592 B.C.
1 And it came to pass that we had gathered together all manner of seeds of every kind, both of grain of every kind, and also of the seeds of fruit of every kind.
2 And it came to pass that while my father tarried in the wilderness he spake unto us, saying: Behold, I have dreamed a dream; or, in other words, I have seen a vision.
3 And behold, because of the thing which I have seen, I have reason to rejoice in the Lord because of Nephi and also of Sam; for I have reason to suppose that they, and also many of their seed, will be saved.
4 But behold, Laman and Lemuel, I fear exceedingly because of you; for behold, methought I saw in my dream, a dark and dreary wilderness.
5 And it came to pass that I saw a man, and he was dressed in a white robe; and he came and stood before me.
6 And it came to pass that he spake unto me, and bade me follow him.
7 And it came to pass that as I followed him I beheld myself that I was in a dark and dreary waste.
8 And after I had traveled for the space of many hours in darkness, I began to pray unto the Lord that he would have mercy on me, according to the multitude of his tender mercies.
9 And it came to pass after I had prayed unto the Lord I beheld a large and spacious field.
10 And it came to pass that I beheld a tree, whose fruit was desirable to make one happy.
11 And it came to pass that I did go forth and partake of the fruit thereof; and I beheld that it was most sweet, above all that I ever before tasted. Yea, and I beheld that the fruit thereof was white, to exceed all the whiteness that I had ever seen.
12 And as I partook of the fruit thereof it filled my soul with exceedingly great joy; wherefore, I began to be desirous that my family should partake of it also; for I knew that it was desirable above all other fruit.
13 And as I cast my eyes round about, that perhaps I might discover my family also, I beheld a river of water; and it ran along, and it was near the tree of which I was partaking the fruit.
14 And I looked to behold from whence it came; and I saw the head thereof a little way off; and at the head thereof I beheld your mother Sariah, and Sam, and Nephi; and they stood as if they knew not whither they should go.
15 And it came to pass that I beckoned unto them; and I also did say unto them with a loud voice that they should come unto me, and partake of the fruit, which was desirable above all other fruit.
16 And it came to pass that they did come unto me and partake of the fruit also.
17 And it came to pass that I was desirous that Laman and Lemuel should come and partake of the fruit also; wherefore, I cast mine eyes towards the head of the river, that perhaps I might see them.
18 And it came to pass that I saw them, but they would not come unto me and partake of the fruit.
19 And I beheld a rod of iron, and it extended along the bank of the river, and led to the tree by which I stood.
20 And I also beheld a strait and narrow path, which came along by the rod of iron, even to the tree by which I stood; and it also led by the head of the fountain, unto a large and spacious field, as if it had been a world.
21 And I saw numberless concourses of people, many of whom were pressing forward, that they might obtain the path which led unto the tree by which I stood.
22 And it came to pass that they did come forth, and commence in the path which led to the tree.
23 And it came to pass that there arose a mist of darkness; yea, even an exceedingly great mist of darkness, insomuch that they who had commenced in the path did lose their way, that they wandered off and were lost.
24 And it came to pass that I beheld others pressing forward, and they came forth and caught hold of the end of the rod of iron; and they did press forward through the mist of darkness, clinging to the rod of iron, even until they did come forth and partake of the fruit of the tree.
25 And after they had partaken of the fruit of the tree they did cast their eyes about as if they were ashamed.
26 And I also cast my eyes round about, and beheld, on the other side of the river of water, a great and spacious building; and it stood as it were in the air, high above the earth.
27 And it was filled with people, both old and young, both male and female; and their manner of dress was exceedingly fine; and they were in the attitude of mocking and pointing their fingers towards those who had come at and were partaking of the fruit.
28 And after they had tasted of the fruit they were ashamed, because of those that were scoffing at them; and they fell away into forbidden paths and were lost.
29 And now I, Nephi, do not speak all the words of my father.
30 But, to be short in writing, behold, he saw other multitudes pressing forward; and they came and caught hold of the end of the rod of iron; and they did press their way forward, continually holding fast to the rod of iron, until they came forth and fell down and partook of the fruit of the tree.
31 And he also saw other multitudes feeling their way towards that great and spacious building.
32 And it came to pass that many were drowned in the depths of the fountain; and many were lost from his view, wandering in strange roads.
33 And great was the multitude that did enter into that strange building. And after they did enter into that building they did point the finger of scorn at me and those that were partaking of the fruit also; but we heeded them not.
34 These are the words of my father: For as many as heeded them, had fallen away.
35 And Laman and Lemuel partook not of the fruit, said my father.
36 And it came to pass after my father had spoken all the words of his dream or vision, which were many, he said unto us, because of these things which he saw in a vision, he exceedingly feared for Laman and Lemuel; yea, he feared lest they should be cast off from the presence of the Lord.
37 And he did exhort them then with all the feeling of a tender parent, that they would hearken to his words, that perhaps the Lord would be merciful to them, and not cast them off; yea, my father did preach unto them.
38 And after he had preached unto them, and also prophesied unto them of many things, he bade them to keep the commandments of the Lord; and he did cease speaking unto them.
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Sister Alexis Skabelund
451 W Bobier Dr
Vista CA 92083-1906
United States





Monday, May 15, 2017

Invite, It Starts With You.

Hi there from Lexie
This Tuesday we had a "testimony district meeting," and a training on testifying. It was a very special experience to hear all the incredible testimonies of the missionaries in my district. Each of us got up and testified of the reasons we came on a mission, what has been the most difficult challenge on our missions, and what is something that we have learned. Even though testifying is something we do every day, I was very nervous to go up and share my own personal experiences (because honestly, I'm a bawl-baby when I share my testimony). But I'm glad that I could share my simple testimony with them. It was really great to hear Elder Pierce's testimony. He is a very quiet, shy guy but his testimony is one of the most powerful testimonies I have heard. As he was telling of his experiences, it felt as though Jesus Christ was talking directly to me. He has gone through some similar difficulties that I have gone through on my mission; I could relate. His testimony is something I really needed to hear that day!
I testify that when you share your own testimony with others, you will make a difference. IT STARTS WITH YOU. Opening your mouth and sharing simple truths with others can make a huge impact. If you want to see a change in the world, it starts with you. If you want to make a difference in someone's life or your own life, it start with you. "Be the change you wish to see in the world." This reminds me of our new ward mission plan, which is one word: INVITE. As a ward mission, we chose the word "invite" because that is our purpose not only as missionaries but as disciples of Jesus Christ...to "INVITE others to come unto Christ." We don't force or manipulate others to come unto Christ, we simply invite them.
In President Uchtdorf's talk, we learn that fear is the opposite of faith. Sometimes it is scary to share the gospel. We are afraid of rejection, losing a friendship, offending someone, or have a fear of not knowing what to say. It is our fear that stops us from inviting. Fear is the opposite of love. When we are filled with love towards our friends and family, we don't need to worry what to say or what they will think. When we invite with love, just like the Savior did, we can have confidence that the Lord will be with us and help us bring others unto him. Sister Watson says, "We are not inviting these people to come to church or activities...well we are, but in the grand scheme we are inviting this people to come unto Christ." And sometimes we won't always get the respond we want, and maybe the reject your invitation but remember that "the SUCCESS IS IN THE INVITATION."
I want all of you to watch this video, it is Elder Bednar talking about an experience when he was the President of BYU-I. As you are watching it, I want to be thinking about a person that you can invite, to whatever it is that you feel inspired to invite them to. THINK OF ONE PERSON. And think of one person you can invite to do the same. Watch the video here>> INVITE THE ONE. I know that as reach out to those around us and invite, we will see miracles, our families will be blessed, and we will develop a stronger love for the Savior. We will see a change in ourselves, and we will make a difference.
GO INVITE THE ONE. go find them, and invite others to do the same!
The highlights of my week were when I got to Skype home and also, we went to Carlsbad for JoJo's baptism! I really missed the ocean!
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we got lost and found a trex.
happy at the ocean.
Sister Alexis Skabelund
451 W Bobier Dr
Vista CA 92083-1906
United States



Monday, May 8, 2017

One Year Mark!!

This week was our year mark, so we celebrated with all the sisters in our zone and had a "sisters picnic." It was so cool to be with Sister Andrew, Sister Jackson, and Sister Watson on our year mark together! It is so hard to believe that we were in the MTC that long ago, crazy crazy! Oh and of course, May the 4th be with you!
On Saturday, my heart was pumping and I was super anxious..."Today is the big day, JENNIFER IS GETTING BAPTIZED." Seriously we were all waiting almost the entire year for this day. After weeks and weeks of trials and tribulations, Jennifer was finally ready to make this life-long commitment to follow her Savior and we are so proud of her! There were many things that kept holding her back and causing more and more doubt before May 6th, but with faith in the Lord, she was able to push through.
There were so many people their in support of Jennifer, and even her mom and sister Layla came! Layla also brought her friend and all three of them said that they felt the spirit so strong when Jennifer went under the water. Layla's friend loved the baptism and wants to start learning more about the church!! After Bishop Wilson welcomed her into the ward, Jennifer got up and bore her testimony of the gospel. I was filled with so much joy as she spoke of the love she has felt from her Heavenly Father. In her words she said, "When I went under the water, it felt like I was under there for a long time-like 5 minutes! And I had flashbacks of all my sins and mistakes begin to disappear from me. I feel clean!" We will never forget this day. And I will never forget the next day, Sunday, when Jennifer was confirmed a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints and received the Holy Ghost! She even got up in front of the congregation and bore her testimony again. I love her!
Here is a scripture that I found in my studies this week: Helaman 3:35,
"Nevertheless they did fast and pray oft, and did wax stronger and stronger in their humility, and firmer and firmer in the faith of Christ, unto the filling their souls with joy and consolation, yea, even to the purifying and the sanctification of their hearts, which sanctification cometh because of their yielding their hearts unto God." I know that when we truly humble ourselves before the Lord in fasting and prayer, we will be filled with joy and the pure love of Christ, and our hearts will be made clean! It is one of the greatest joys to bring souls unto Christ. I am going to take advantage and make the most out of the last 6 months I have here! Being a missionary is the best...I'm pretty sure I say that every week.
Love you all. xoxoxo
Sister Alexis Skabelund
p.s. jennifer got a puppy, his name is Thor!
451 W Bobier Dr
Vista CA 92083-1906
United States